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I'm Moving Tomorrow and I'm So Sad!

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albert · 25/10/2005 17:26

Tomorrow morning DS and I get in the car and drive away, leaving behind our beloved Venice where we have been living for the last 3 years. DH has got a job in Brazil and has been there since August, leaving me and DS to arrange the move and finish up my job and DS's school. It has been a very tough struggle but tomorrow we final leave and I've spent the enitire week saying 'it's the last time I will be doing this' to myself. DS had a big send off from school (he was very popular) I had a big send off from work and now I'm sitting here crying because I don't actually want to go. I know we are doing the right thing. DH has a fantastic job as a Director in the British Embassy in Brasilia and I'm sure it will be perfect. Of course I can't wait to see DH again so why am I so sad? We will be able to buy a house for the first time, DS already speaks Portuguese, as do I, so there will be no problems there (unlike here initially) and really everything looks great, I should be excited but I'm not! In the scope of life this is really petty to be sad about compared to the dreadful things others have to go through but I can't help it. Sorry, I just wanted to write it down really (I'm also a little anxious about the forthcoming drive of 3 or 4 days to Copenhagen with just DS and me - but that's another story!)

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MarsLady · 25/10/2005 17:47

Albert.............. I hope the move goes really really well.

Can't believe I didn't get my a in gear and visit you in the gorgeous Venice.

Will attempt to visit you in Brazil. Hey... just cos we are strangers... no reason we shouldn't meet. lol

I'm sure that the drive will be fine. Be thinking of you!

madmummyof2 · 25/10/2005 17:53

i would be massivly excited but then again i have never lived more than 30 miles from where i wqa sborn so i would probably cack my pants so i dont think your being petty at all.

hope everything goes ok. and hey....remind me to make freinds with you

albert · 25/10/2005 18:03

And worse still, I'll be disconnecting the computer tonight and have no idea when I'll be back on MN!!!

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MarsLady · 25/10/2005 18:04

Albert.................noooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! lol

edgetop · 25/10/2005 18:04

albert i would like to wish you luck in your move, i think you are very brave to travel so far ,,also i think its understanable to be sad leaving somewhere that you have been happy living, i think when you see dh you will feel a lot better.at least you are moving for the right reasons.
all the best

ggglimpopo · 25/10/2005 18:38

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moondog · 25/10/2005 18:40

Albert,sounds like such an adventure!
Think of all those mojitos for a start!

Bon Voyage!!

Gem13 · 25/10/2005 18:43

Just wanted to wish you luck. I'm not suprised you're feeling sad - it sounds overwhelming!

It makes me feel anxious too as my life plan was to live somewhere for a couple of years and then move on to another country. I don't think I've factored in that feeling of leaving somewhere that is great though (as I presume Venice has been for you and DS).

I hope Brasilia is even better!

ggglimpopo · 25/10/2005 18:43

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moondog · 25/10/2005 18:47

ggg!
Dh had a colleague fly in today and she said the rubbish in it as they came down to land was unbelievable. Turks and Kurds have a long way to go on thewaste disposal front.

But...went down to the dock today for a walk and boy oh boy. Huge cloudless blue sky,glittering lake surrounded by a ring of snow capped mountains and hardly anyone at all. Amazing.

Must admit,I think rather jealously of you in lovely Bordeaux on several occasions (usually after one too many kebabs..)

Albert,why are you driving to Copenhagen???

doormat · 25/10/2005 18:52

albert I am sure you will come to love the new place once you have settled in.
xxx

Blu · 25/10/2005 19:01

Albert - was it you whose DH wanted to take DS for a month to his mothers on the way?

Hope it all got sorted, and it DOES sound a fantstic job!

Lonelymum · 25/10/2005 19:08

Good god Albert, you are moving to another continent - of course you are going to feel a bit apprehensive. If you did not, you surely wouldn't be human? Anyway, try to concentrate on the positive: seeing dh again, the house you will be able to buy, the fact that you already speak the language, the exciting new culture you will experience. I can imagine leaving a city as beautiful as Venice and also leaving the wonderful Italian people must be really hard, but, as someone who has moved many times in my adult life (though always in England), I know how important it is to embrace the new and try not to hold on to the old too much. Good luck! Looking forward to hearing from you when you get back online - bet it won't be long! Make it one of your priorities!

albert · 25/10/2005 19:08

Yeah Blu, that was me. Glad to say that DH saw sense in the end (pretty quickly actually) and DS has been with me.
Moondog, we're driving to Denmark because previous to Venice we were Danish diplomats living in Copenhagen and our car still has the diplomatic number plates so I can't sell it here.
Really, my life is like a totally unbelievable soap-opera!

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BudaBabe · 25/10/2005 19:38

Hi albert - from one ex-pat to anothre - I know just how you feel! You know you will settle in Brazil but it doesn't stop you being sad about the place you leave. We are on move no. 4 and I have had ENOUGH!

Lucky lucky you to have such fab posts!

Good luck with the move!

Tortington · 25/10/2005 20:10

many many congratulations on your move. and am thinking next years xmas doo at the embassy in brazil

you up fer that ?

HausOfHorrors · 25/10/2005 20:34

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suedonim · 25/10/2005 21:22

Bon voyage, Albert! I'm v about Venice - I've never been there.

I'll be moving to W Africa in Jan so I'll be in the same situation as you, though funnily enough, the Brit ambassador there is the same chap who was in Indonesia during our Asian stint.

albert · 25/10/2005 21:33

Ooh suedonim, what is Embassy life like? We are new to it, previously we were both United Nations people, now I'll be a SAHM (at least for a while)
Yeah Custy, let's rock Brasilia next Christmas

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MarsLady · 25/10/2005 21:52

ooh count me in on that meetup

suedonim · 25/10/2005 22:07

Oh, we weren't embassy folk, Albert - just the hoi-polloi the big-wigs had to look out for!!

The ambassador in Jakarta was v nice, and exactly as you imagine a British diplomat to be, cool, calm and collected. There was a pub in the embassy and they held regular drinks events that anyone could go to. Sadly, I somehow never managed to get to any of them but dh went a couple of times. There weren't many Brit expats in Indonesia, less than 2,000, so the embassy could cater easily for those numbers, I suppose.

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