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Advice from midwifes please

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Bekki · 15/09/2003 11:31

After just having my second baby I am very grateful to the midwifes who took such great care of me through the birth. It made me realise what an important and rewarding job they must do. I've since considered leaving my social sciences degree to have a go at midwiferey but I have no idea how you go about it. What qualifications do you need to start a midwifery course? Do you need to be a nurse first? Is it possible to study for it with two small children? And lastly am I deluded by my image of being a midwife? Is it as rewarding as I'm imagining it to be?

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ANGELMOTHER · 15/09/2003 11:32

Good for you Bekki. best of luck

Beccaroll · 15/09/2003 11:42

Ive always, always wanted to be a midwife too - Ill be interested to see your replies!

mears · 15/09/2003 19:30

I love being a midwife but it can be stressful at times. You do not need to be a nurse and there are varying entry requirements dependant on the university you go to. It is a diploma course which can be extended to degree. Shift work such as weekends and nights can be difficult with a young family but I have managed with 4 children. Have a look at this site this

mears · 15/09/2003 19:34

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pupuce · 15/09/2003 20:30

Bekki - I felt like you and researched it then decided I'd prefer being a doula... I love childbirth and supporting women to achieve the birth they'd like... but I am not interested in working for a NHS type system. I want my "client" to be the mum/dad and as a MW that is not the case. I didn't want to be at births day in day out... so as a doula I have found the right combination for me.
I support 1 or 2 families per month. I know them very well by the time she goes into labour, I am invited to christenings and birthday parties ! I don't have to perform medical acts (some of which I personally would disagree with).... but it is a 24/7 job as I must go when the mother starts her labour. But I love it ! (and it was a job I discovered via Mumsnet !)

Oakmaiden · 15/09/2003 20:45

Bournemouth University (where I trained)has the following requirements for entry as a student midwife.

The Advanced Diploma course requires 7 GCSE's (Grade A-C), including Maths, English and a Science. You receive a bursary whilst on the Advanced Diploma course, but have no access to ordinary student finances.
The degree course has, I believe, normal degree style requirements (so A levels or equivalent.) The only difference between the substance of the courses was (whillst I was studying, anyway) that in the degree course you had to write a dissertation.

It is possible to study with small children, but you do need to be very dedicated and organised.

It is one of the best jobs in existence. I don't know what else to say. There is nothing I would rather do. It can be immensely rewarding, although also it can be very demoralising - to be honest a lot of it is personality. There is a lot of politics that goes on between midwives on the wards, which I loathe, and there is sometimes a vast gulf in the way one believes midwifery should be practised and the way you see it being practiced all around you. The pressure to conform is immense - I think it takes a very strong personality to stick up for what you believe in, in the face of "old school" opposition.

Probably many jobs are like this though?

I seem to recall another thread on this subject not long ago. Trying to remember the name, and where it was.

Oakmaiden · 15/09/2003 20:50

I waffled on a bit about this subject here.

Beccaroll · 15/09/2003 20:52

Pupuce - could you give me any information on becoming a doula? I have always thought this sounded great - I only discovered they existed a few months ago but didnt know how you would go about getting into it.

Thanks

Rebecca
xxx

pupuce · 15/09/2003 21:14

Why don't you have a good look at this website - there are courses but also "journey to become a doula" and you can contact me via this website if you want more info....

Bekki · 18/09/2003 23:11

Thanks for the info. I'm going to give it a years consideration before I throw away my current studies. I think this is the only career that I have actually thought about seriously and as a result I'm putting myself off the idea slightly by looking at every possible negative aspect. At the end of the day though I don't think that any job could be as rewarding as being a midwife so thanks everyone and maybe I'll see you in the delivery rooms Beccaroll!

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