feel horrible about this.... need some perspective!

[HuggyBear]

I got banned from my favoutite site ever. Its mystic familiar - im always posting links to it on here.

Its a chat room and message boards thing and they do classes, i was doing about 4 classes a week. and my favourite one is on now

I was always logged in there and got on with everyone, would even go as far as to say i was popular on there

anyway i committed the terrible sin of.... exchanging details (msn) with someone and meeting up with them off site (no msn/emails are to be swopped, no meet-ups - site rules)

and now ive been perminatly banned by the owner

cant believe that i could be upset over a website, but it really felt like home (in a website way) i guess how many of you here feel about mn. you build up relationships with people and get to know them.

Well, that was the reason given anyway...

anyway, please give me some sense of perspective - its only a website at te end of the day... so why am i upset???

I think that its cause alot of 'discussion' that ive been banned cause theres no reason behind it - and i do have loads of friends there, have had lots of emails and msns saying 'wtf!' (hmmmm must have broke the no swopping details rule a few times then but saying that - if it was really for breaking that rule... it takes 2 to swop details, yet im the only one banned!!

People cannot be banned for swapping details.. that just isn't sane. That can't be the reason.

I know, but seening sol owns the site theres not much i can do about it!!

Was talking to a couple of people from site today and they weer saying that they had emailed sol to say they miss me and like me is very sweet of them but sol wont change her mind and im not sure whether i would go back now... who am i kidding!! course i would go back - if only for chis circle which i love!!

Is nice to know people liked me on there though

and i have found another site which is similar - but mf is just so unique!, its the other sites reading night tonight so will give it a go and see what i think!

Some one else was telling me that people got annoyed over bannings last night too jess, theres been loads gone over the last few weeks (hosts and old hands) they are saying that the site is changing so much which is cause its a really special place. the healing rooms was lovely

just a random thought... wonder if sol is an mnner!!

huggy did you get my email?

I read the site rules today and the only thing I could see that was unallowable was dating. Meeting up is fine. I cannot understand how a website can ban people for wanting to meet in RL! It is very controlling and goes against everything that spirituality is about - love, friendship and trust.

I am quite disgusted about this and not been back, but will look for that thread now and post my thoughts.

Whats the new site you are going to, lets all go there instead

I think it's time for a mn invasion of mystic familiar just chanting MUMSNET, MUMSNET, MUMSNET!

Tinker don´t give me ANY encouragement its on the tip of my fingertips!

Huggy I mean to say, you VISITED people who are members of MF and STAYED with them. I am really disgusted by this - it has turned my spiritual stomach.

What is the * and ~ boards huggy? Not the forum threads, cannot see anything there.

LOL tinker! (but dont really do that lol)

Paps i got your email and was gonna reply later, have been out all day

Awe paps, dont stay away from site cause of me, you will get loads from the empathy class. Gale said you pmmed her last night

I was pretty upset over it but then realised that one day sol will realise that the person close to her isnt who she thinks they are. The site is so nice and its a great place to learn and develope - except for the few that have to make everything all about them.

I know its not against the rules to meet up... thats why i think it was just an excuse.

After talking to some people off site today, ive got a feeling that its all gonna blow up soon and im really quite glad im not around for it!

Ive been using a new site called spirits light the way

its not anywhere near mf though - its a newer site and smaller. but the people are friendly and am giving it a chance. I may only think mf is better cause its what im used too.

I keep trying to say horrible things about mf, but i cant lol. its a fab site i would still really recommend it to anyone - with the pre warning of not crossing this one person!!

Pap - i'm a mod on another site and yes there is a separate board for ~ and * !!!!! So you won't be able to put your thoughts accross.

I have thoughts on this too obviously what with Huggy being a friend but think I'm on my second chance anyway so I will keep my thoughts to myself here and on MF.

However Huggy, you know i'm here for you ok and (((((((hugs))))))

Tc mate and speak to you soon - always got msn eh!!!! Good job I met you here and not there or else we may not have that!

the ~ and * boards can only be accessed by hosts and affiliate its where they keep nots on users, whos read who, healings and people who have been banned and theyre ip addy.

(im not supposed to know about them!!)

its funny really cause im close to all the hosts and affiliates, and maybe my friend didnt realise it when she decided she wanted me off site - i dont think she knew how many people would disagree with it. You know what i was like for lofting!!

Yes I did pm her, and she you seemed okay about it. I thought otherwise and have just seen this thread now.

You stayed with her so obviously that was okay, so it does seem like there is an undercurrent to this ban.

I am not sure if I will go back. The Empathy Class may or may not be useful, but tbh I have not found it a particularly wise site. Out of the bag comment I have felt for some time! I am born the year of the dog you know - I am loyal to what I believe and feel and would feel uncomfortable going there atm.

Tried to get onto the website. Couldn't get on but got linked, somehow, to some really hardcore po.n! Well shocked, and thank god DS's didn't see

Dont know how that happened!! lol theres definatly no porn on mf!!