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Bloody rude, if you ask me.

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bubble99 · 16/10/2005 20:28

We took the boys to a horse riding display/show today. There were Cossack riders doing amazing stunts and Spanish riders doing some amazing dressagey things. It was held in an indoor arena (like a big top tent) and was sold-out. At the end of the show all of the riders came out once for bows/applause etc. We were clapping away, when I noticed that peole were getting up and leaving. Some had started to leave before the riders even came out for their applause.

How rude is that? Yes, the carpark was busy, but what example does this set for children? That people who spend an afternoon entertaining you, are not worth acknowledging. I noticed, as well, that nearly all of those leaving were middle-class,Boden clad, broadsheet readers. The type of parents who regularly bend my parent governor ear at school to ask why Tarquin and Jemima aren't in the same class as the 'nice' children.

Rude, rude people. People who treat others as 'furniture.' I felt so sorry for one of the spanish riders, he was bowing to a disappearing row of people and looked confused and hurt.

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beatie · 17/10/2005 09:56

MrsWednesday - that article is spot on. It was definitely a Hyacinth Bucket type who thought she had the right to invade my table.

I agree with the hoody wearing teens. They'll often happily stand back and let me past with a buggy or hold open a shop door whilst I struggle to push the buggy inside.

beatie · 17/10/2005 09:57

I agree about the hoody wearing teens - even.

hunkerpumpkin · 17/10/2005 10:00

Beatie, in your second example, I'd have been tempted to push her off her bike, then laughed and said, "You're sprawled in the middle of the road!"

What I'd actually have done is laughingly said, "You're riding a bike!"

But I'm actually rather rude

PeachyClairPumpkinPie · 17/10/2005 10:01

OOh you got me on my soapbox on this one!

We do carnivals in Somerset. The kids specifically, altho we spend all year fundraising / building. The carnivals last between 1 and 4 hours depending on where you see it. Yet 75% or so of the poeple don't even bother clapping the kids (some do obviously, it makes everyones day). it's only gotten worse since mobile phone cameras, half the poeple aseem to watch you through a viewfinder.

IMHO this is really rude! they don't pay a penny for night's entertainment, how much effort is it to clap?

I know a lot of people who say it doesn't matter but that's codswallop, frankly. taunton carnval on Satuday last was great, loads of clapping / audience partcipation... everyone say how much they enjoyed taking part. Ilminster tgis year though hardly anyone clapped, it was miserable! It only gets wirse at the big ones: the locals at Bridgwater / North petherton clap, but the tourists who feel they ahve 'paid' (for the bus love, we don;t see a penny) just don't bother.

How hard is it to clap 11 under 12's dancing for three hours to entertain you? And us poor adults trekking mile upon mile often in the rain to keep the whole thing safe?

buffytheharpsichordcarrier · 17/10/2005 11:02

that article is spot on about rudeness btw. after living in some of the snootier parts of London and extr stuck up Cambridge we are now living in Chav Town, Scumsville and I can honestly say the people here are charming, friendly and on the whole extremely polite. boys with hoodies helping me with my shopping, girls with tats lifting the pushchair into the car for me, EVERYONE giving up their seat. chat chat chat all the time...
driving me crazy actually

buffytheharpsichordcarrier · 17/10/2005 11:21

the only places to get any real rudeness around here are Waitrose, John Lewis and (my personal pet hate) garden centres, where miserable people dressed very smartly feel free to tut at my dd for the mere fact of her existence it seems to me

DinoScareUs · 17/10/2005 11:23

When was a season ticket holder at a Premier league football club, I used to be amazed every match at the numbers of people who left before the end. I never did, it always seemed like real disloyalty.

weesaidie · 17/10/2005 11:24

lol, very funny thread, people can be terribly terribly rude I must say darling.

Hunker, your story reminded me of something that happened to me recently. My doorbell rang and it was the postie with something for me to sign for in one hand and a fag in the other! It made the whole process far more finicky, couldn't he have waited one f**king minute!

marthamoo · 17/10/2005 11:24

Love that article from The Observer -

"If this were America, I would have got out of my car and shot her. As it was Teddington, I apologised and burst into tears."

PMSL

Dior · 17/10/2005 22:26

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