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are vivid dreams typical when you have counselling/therapy?

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LadyFioOfTipton · 04/10/2005 08:04

because i cant remember what is real and what is a dream. I know i sound like i have gone mad. But is it typical?

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LadyFioOfTipton · 04/10/2005 08:53

hhmm well i have got one thing sorted, my dd's escort is not swapping buses, my gawd i feel like an idiot asking her but i was so confused!

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CreepyJess · 04/10/2005 08:58

Fio are you having counselling/therapy????????! (Because I am waiting for some..

And what are you waffling on about re buses??

LadyFioOfTipton · 04/10/2005 09:28

yes sleepjess! Iu have had toi pay private but luckily have found a 'trainee' pyschotherapist for cheaper and she is v v good~! Itwas going to take 6 months through the GP and they only give you 6 sessions, which is rubbish really. i can give you the number of this one if you like? the assesment is a bit more expensive though but worth it really.

This dream was about dd's escort saying she was changing her job and wouldnt be picking up dd anymore and it would be someone else. i was really upset about it aswell, thank goodness it was a dream My dreams are just so vivid though, they are confusing me. Think its a sign of insanity isnt it?

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TurQorTreat · 04/10/2005 09:33

Tell your therapist about the dreams Fio, that one's a real indicator of the feelings she was picking up on.
Are you having trouble sleeping? Because you remember your dreams better when you've been in a less deep, restless sleep.
I shouldn't worry about it, it just shows that you're getting yourself the right help! (ISWIM - not suggesting youre bonkers on anything if that's how it sounds ) Will stop digging and climb out of hole now.

CreepyJess · 04/10/2005 09:34

Crikey Fio.. you seem so 'together'.. I changed my name on here to ask about counselling because I was ashamed of being so screwed up.. what a dork!

I will have to wait for the NHS one I think.. funds are dire.. but have been told the wait would not be more than 3 months and have waited 1 month already.. so maybe I'll get a session in time for helping me with stressful Christmas!! Am also hoping it will help with my anxiety symtoms as well.. God, I need counselling for SO many reasons.. sometimes I think I am slowly unravelling!!! (Thank God for MN - a place to come for a laugh!!)

We ought to meet up without the kids sometime.. looks like we have even more in common than we thought! (IE screwed-up-ness )

LadyFioOfTipton · 04/10/2005 09:38

jess, of course we can meet up without kids. i met turq after my first counselling session, oh boy was offloading

the reason i started having counselling was due to anxiety aswell. they oput me on Ads which i had too many side efeects on and had to come off and now i am beta blockers but as of yet i havent had to take any yet. Counselling is exhausting but really helping. i will tell herr about my dreams turq, i think she did mention it on the assement session come to think of it

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LadyFioOfTipton · 04/10/2005 09:39

and i had to sleep with ds last night as he isnt very well and i think i may not have slept porperly but the dreams are v v vivid, almost real

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Heathcliffscathy · 04/10/2005 09:49

fio, it's not necessarily more common, however, some therapists believe that dreams are messages from your unconscious (the ones you remember that are vivid that is) and that they speak truth about some aspect of your psyche/life.

so pay attention to the ones that are vivid and maybe bring them to your therapy. specifically if your therapist uses any elements of jungian psychotherapy she/he will be v v interested.

i would say tho that dreams are more common in times of transition/stress/life change so if that applies to you that could account for a vivid dream. and don't worry about being confused i've had dreams that have taken days to shake off!

CreepyJess · 04/10/2005 10:02

Hi Sophable (Who was so helpful on my 'undercover' thread)

Fio, how does the anxiety affect you? I have been having mini panic attacks.. as well as a generally underlying feeling of anxiousness most of the time - sometimes causing physical symptoms. I did post about this as myself on here. AntiDs - these are the main reason I didn't want to go to the docs.. I don't think I am depressed so why would I want antiDs.. I don't think depression and anxiety are the same thing (do you?) so why are they so quick to prescribe..? Don't fancy beta blockers either ! What are they doing to you??! I don't much fancy any drug for this, this was why I thought of counselling. The HV referred me.. us actually, because DH is very stressed too - it just affects him differently.

LadyFioOfTipton · 04/10/2005 11:05

the reason alot of Gps prescribe (what mine told me anyway) is that the waiting lists for counselling is so long and can often be unhelpful, wrong therapist, not enough theraoy etc. Therefore instead of having both hands tied behind your back, the Ads loosen up the one and take the 'edge' of things and help you function more normally. They made me feel really chilled and do make you less anxious if they work properly.

For me, and after speaking to my GP and therapist, i think the anxiety is depression. I really couldnt work out why i was so anxious (having panic attacks too, they are awful arent they?) and they both felt it was because I had alot of unresolved 'issues' and they were manifesting themselves as anxiousness. Not sure this is making sense tbh. But i think even focusing on going to counselling and ta;lking over things and realising that my feelings are normal and trying to get rid of some of my guilt is the best course of action for me. i need to deal with the past in order to focus on the future

the beta blockers are supposed to help if you feel a panic attack coming on or have something stressful to face, like an MRI head scan ykwim? no wonder we are all stressed though, hey?

thanks sophable that is useful, i will pass on the dreams. thinking about it, i think that is something I would be very very upset and would unnerve me if the escort wasnt with dd as she is one of the only people I have support down here iykwim

sorry i have most probably wittered on

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Arabica · 04/10/2005 12:58

When I first started having therapy I kept a dream diarythere were lots of interesting and sometimes things happening in the dreams and for me, they represented a lot of buried feelings recognising that they now had a safe space (the therapy) to try and emergeI just didn't know how to express them in any other way. Freud saw dreams as 'the royal road to the unconscious'; it's been suggested that the goal of psychotherapy is to make our hidden thoughts and feelings and motivations known, and dreams can help us do this.

hocuspocusdiplodocus · 04/10/2005 13:11

Is counselling/therapy very expensive if you go private?

Heathcliffscathy · 04/10/2005 13:13

anything between £25 (v rare) to £50 pounds per session (usual is once a week, but in pschoanalysis it can be 3 or 4 times). I'd say that £30-40 is usual

it's a long term commitment and the financial side is only one aspect to that....

HuggyBear · 04/10/2005 13:14

what was your dream about?

LadyFioOfTipton · 04/10/2005 13:29

its alot cheaper if you have a trainee pyschotherapist

the dream was about my daughters escort

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LadyFioOfTipton · 04/10/2005 13:30

it is 50 quid here privately, much more than i can afford esp as they recommend you have weekly sessions

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Arabica · 04/10/2005 16:49

There's a very reputable (ie registerd with appropriate governing body) psychotherapy training organisation offering sessions for just £10 an hour, twice a week, for 2 years, that i know of if anyone is interested. Unfortunately, they are only in London so far as I know. If anyone is interested either CAt me or I will do a link later on.

LadyFioOfTipton · 04/10/2005 18:48

alot of counselling centres have trainees who are 'experienced and mature' and linked to the uni, as far as i know

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TurQorTreat · 04/10/2005 19:04

Westminster Pastoral Foundation has a network of centres throughout the country and operates a sliding scale of fees. They are excellent.

Arabica · 05/10/2005 10:39

Here's some information about affordable psychotherapy (scroll down the page to 'getting in touch' and you'll find it) at CAPP

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