I need to get away from my husband

[Hther]

I can't take any more. I'm sick of him treating me so badly, i'm sick of being scared to say no every time he asks for money, or when he wants me ot get more channels on sky so he can watch the football even though he doesn't live here and can't afford to pay me for them.

I'm sick of him causing problems for himself anf taking them out on me, and not letting anyone help.

I'm sick of feeling I have to please him all the time. I'm sick of him coming round "to see the children" then not even spending quality time with them and just complaining that the house is a mess, because i put children before housework.

I'm sick of him being grumpy when he doesn't get his own way.

I hate him being "nice" one minute and horrible the next.

I'm sick of it being my fault when he's ill, or he loses some money, or doesn't get the job he was after or someone says something he doesn't like.

I am completely drained. I have 4 young children, 2 with special needs and although they are wonderful, life is hard work enough with them to look after.

Don't know if i can get an injunction for emotional/ finincial abuse, my special needs daughter has just started at a new school and settled really welland loving it - and my youngest with possible autism is getting support now - if I move it will mean waiting for referral again, big changes for my now settled and happy daughter.

If I stay, I think, I will still feel bad for years to come - too many memories here.

Sorry, just wanted to get this off my chest

Hther it sounds like he does not add to your life in a good way.
Does he live with you or not?

So he doesn't live with you, but treats the house as his own? Who owns the house - or whose name is on the tenancy agreement?

I can't see any reason why you're not starting divorce proceedings, tbh. He sounds awful, and you sound very very unhappy.

Is there somewhere else that he can see the children?

How dare he tell you to get Sky etc when he doesn't even live there!

I think you need either a grandparent's house or a contact centre where he can see the children. You really shouldn't have him coming to the house - that is your haven, not somewhere where you are pestered by him.