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Honour Amongst Mums?

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marthamoo · 23/09/2005 10:20

Bit of a rant really. Last Friday I arrived at pre-school to pick up ds2 and found him in different trousers to the ones I'd sent him in. He'd had a accident - no big deal. I was handed a tied up carrier bag with his wet clothes in. Only when I got home and opened the bag - they weren't his clothes. Thankfully they were only weed on so I washed and tumble dried them and dropped them back at pre-school that same afternoon.

Now I expected the other Mum to do the same...but a week later and ds2's clothes still haven't turned up. The clothes I was given by mistake were...er...pretty scratty. The jeans ds2 was wearing were really nice - they were MiniMode and I bought them half price in the sale, he had only just grown into them. It's fairly obvious that the other Mum has decided not to reclaim her scruffy old trews and keep ds2's instead. I am mightily peed off. Pre-school are being very wishy-washy about the whole thing - vague promises about sending a note home with all the boys' Mums (I don't see why they can't just ask this other Mum directly - I don't know who she is and they won't tell me).

It's not even the trousers so much (well it is, actually - they were really nice - and I would never pay £15 for jeans for a 3 year old so I was very chuffed to get them half price) it's the principle!

Another MNer and RL friend of mine had her raincover (one of those Maclaren ones that has eyelets and fits on the hood) pinched off her buggy from the changing rooms at the swimming bath. It was a new one, the old one had ripped as they do, and so she'd bought a new one at not inconsiderable expense. It hadn't occured to her just to pinch someone else's.

I just think it's rotten that Mums can rip each other off in this way - I thought there was a kind of Mum solidarity. I'm naive aren't I?

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flamebat · 23/09/2005 12:40

Oh god - other mums are gonna hate me when DD starts I'm useless! I forget everything. They would have been festering in the bag until Monday when I found it with the other school bits I had dumped somewhere.

They would have then been washed and dried... OR on a bad day, washed, taken out and forgotten about, rewashed because they smelt slightly musty, then dried.

THEN they would sit on the side waiting to be ironed as I wouldn't want to give them back unironed and the other mums know how useless I am (ironic given the whole chain of events so far ).

THEN - they sit ironed, in a bag for a bit longer while I forget to take them in every day.

So, equally as useless, but nothing malicious in me.

On the other hand, most of the mums round here would be the nickin nicer clothing types!

Marina · 23/09/2005 12:40

Dino, I did the same with some PE shorts, as I am 99% certain where our pair ended up. Very different IME to deliberately retaining someone else's named school clothes.

swizzles · 23/09/2005 14:15

why would you take a posh towel to accrington?

moondog · 23/09/2005 14:21

My father ripped his old blazer off the back of another boy who (unknown to my fatner) had been given it by my father's mother. She made him apologise and give it back (it was too small for him anyway.)

Last year,the lad in question called on my father and gave the blazer back to him.It had been insulating their boiler for fifty years!

swizzles · 23/09/2005 14:22

ah ! mizmiz! I thought you'd left us?

moondog · 23/09/2005 14:24

Shhhhhhhh!

Janh · 23/09/2005 14:25

swizzles, I only had posh towels

Fio2 · 23/09/2005 14:26

My son had been wearing some other poor childs jacket for weeks

said Mother had noticed that my ds had the same jacket (it was a different size!) and although they werent doing the same sessions it must have got swapped over at some point [blkush]

bet my name was mud, i hadnt even noticed

swizzles · 23/09/2005 14:26

oh well, nice to see you back...mizmiz retired now?

Janh · 23/09/2005 14:27

I thought acquiring unlabelled things from school's lost property was compulsory after you'd lost your own?

No !

swizzles · 23/09/2005 14:27

ooh janh, get you!

Fio2 · 23/09/2005 14:27

and the embarassing thing was the nursery manager took me to one side 'for a word' and whispered to me, i felt bloody awful then she ended it with "we realised a couple of weeks ago but didnt like to say anything and thought you would just realise"

Janh · 23/09/2005 14:29

(We had been living in the US and all towels are posh there, even $2 ones from Walmart!)

moondog · 23/09/2005 14:32

When I worked as a camp counsellor in the States,the highlight of every summer was raiding the lost&found box after the kids had gone.

Got some cracking stuff.

One bloke was mortified though when he was discovered wearing a kid's expensive shorts (and sewing up a small rip in a backpack he'd also left behind) by the mother of said kid who had done a u turn to collect his forgotten stuff!

Janh · 23/09/2005 14:34

O this one was casually swapped for DD1's non-classy towel by a scatty kid at the pool - hence the karma! DD1 presented it to me with great delight when she got home (in lieu of a pressy!)

ScummyMummy · 23/09/2005 16:51

That is definitely karma, janh. So don't worry moo- clearly all will be well when ds gets to the adult trouser-swapping stage!

tallulah · 24/09/2005 09:46

DS2 managed to come home in a cheap Asda school shirt after setting off in a new M&S one . Never did sort that out (& of course the Asda shirt had no name in). Expect that sort of thing from little ones but he was 14 at the time!

Jimjams · 24/09/2005 10:01

It took me ages to track down a jacket of ds2's - I knew who had it but her dh kept bringing the wrong jacket and taking other children's.

ds1 keeps coming home with the wrong pants on!

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