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So sad. Not for the faint-hearted. Not sure how to title this thread.

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Catbert · 17/09/2005 23:27

My sister has just rung me in floods of tears.

Her 3 year old son has accidentally drowned 4 of her 5 kittens in the bath earlier this evening. They were only 5 weeks old.

She had some clothes soaking, and was in her kitchen (tiny flat right next door to bathroom) but didn't realise what he was doing until it was too late.

She was and still is hysterical, blaming herself for taking her eye off the ball for too long. Completely traumatised by having to retrieve their sad little bodies from the bath and no way to save them. One died in her hands. The mother cat is pining outside the bathroom door. The last one survived because he was the only one too timid to come out from under the bed.

Her DS doesn't really understand what he did (and hopefully won't - hope he won't be traumatised by this).

I don't mean to post this just to bum everyone out, but it's yet another reminder I feel, of how you should be wary of very young children and animals. The fact that very young children can get themselves into any amount of trouble very quickly.

When your oldest is only 3 (like mine) I worry that we can give them credit for being and acting older than their capability because they seem so clever and capable already.

But they really are just babies who have learnt to walk and talk and are really only just grasping the beginnings of understanding life and everything it really means.

Not sure that it's a situation anyone can comment on or offer advise about. Just so awful, I wanted to get it off my chest. I am so gutted for my sister.

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zippy539 · 17/09/2005 23:30

Oh Catbert, how horrible Poor cats, poor sister's DS, poor sister Don't know what to say really.

rickman · 17/09/2005 23:31

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SleepySuzy · 17/09/2005 23:33

OMG poor things.

Catbert · 17/09/2005 23:35

I know there's nothing really to say. There's nothing you can do really is there? She just keeps thinking about it and getting really upset about it. I just hope for her DSs sake, he won't recall this in the future. It's a difficult one to know. She has said that she will never mention it again to him as long as he lives, because she knows how devestated she would be even now, if our mum told us we had done something like this in our past, even if we were too young to understand.

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Kathlean · 17/09/2005 23:36

Oh my how sad. Did your nephew get into the bath?

Can you imagine if he had got caught up in the clothing in the bath it could have been tragic.

GeraldGiraffe · 17/09/2005 23:37

Bloody hell, that's awful. how terrible for your sis. But why was a three year old left unsupervised with a bathtub of water? I wouldn't trust my dd (granted she is only 2.6) near water for as long as it takes to get in let alone drown kittens.

GeraldGiraffe · 17/09/2005 23:38

Not trying to sound harsh there BTW (just read post and realised thats how it sounded. Just

imagine if it had been him

Catbert · 17/09/2005 23:40

Yeah well - of course I, and my mother said this too. View that bathtub as a pond in the back garden. At least it wasn't her son. Harsh. But thought provoking. Learn a lesson from it. It's the only thing you can do isn't it?

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kcemum · 17/09/2005 23:53

How awful, feel sad for your sister. My sil accidently killed one of her cats and was devasted by it.

oops · 18/09/2005 00:20

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Lillypond · 18/09/2005 00:30

Oh that's so sad. Think your sis is right never to mention it to him though. It's no-one's fault, just a horrible accident and hard learnt lesson.

jayzmummy · 18/09/2005 00:33

Thats is so sad
I would echo the others who have posted about the dangers of a child being left unsupervised in the bathroom.....thank goodness he hadnt fallen in the bath.

DS2(ASD) went to play for the afternoon at a friends house when he was a toddler. The friends had a hamster and the mum put the little furry creature into one of those excercise balls. The phone rang and she left the boys playing in the living room.....the boys took the ball outside and had a game of footie
Poor hamster was well and truely dead by the time she realised what they had done!

There is no way that DS2 remembers what he did and I would hate for him to ever find out as he is an animal lover now. Hopefully your nephew is young enough that he will not recall his actions.

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