My dh has just got a payrise and it will be back dated so basically when he gets paid next month he will have an extra £300. He told me this and before I had chance to say anything he replied, and before you say anything I will be spending it on turning spare bedroom into his gym. I questioned that saying there might be something else to spend the money on and his reply was "Its mine" this really annoyed me as he stopped being "I" when we got married and I spent my bonus on getting the garden sorted out last month and he contributed about 20% to it, and I still have an overdraft that partly paid for it.
He fails to see why I am annoyed and its caused us not speaking tonight, I wanted to ask here as I know you lot dont beat about the bush and I want to know frankly if you would be fed up.
Name changed as dont want family to know.