I have one DD age 3, I am 36. I'm happy with DH and we are financially secure. I have a busy job and life is already a juggling act. DH works very long hours so all childcare responsibility during the week is mine. I'm really struggling with the decision to have another baby or not. I cope with DD and work... just. But will a second tip me over the edge? I'm also quite scared about another pregnancy and birth. DDs was quite traumatic. Part of me thinks if we only had DD we could have a really nice life, big house, holidays, hobby time and a lot less stress. But am I going to regret not having another baby? Time isn't really on my side either.
DH is happy with just one but would have another if I really want to but on the condition that I maintain all responsibility during the week and never complain about it. There is also a problem because having a baby is hard and best will in the world you don't feel like Mary Poppins 100% of the time but I'll have to fake it anyway because I'd chosen to have the baby. Don't know what to do......WWYD?