Sleepovers

[nuttymumofone]

Aibu to be cross that my 14 yr old daughter went do sleepover at another parents home that I agreed with. Bearing in mind that I am an over protective mum of 14 yr I'd only daughter. That other mum took them bowling then left them at home of a family I didn't know to play pool and lifted them later. When I discovered this I went mental as if I leave my child with Simone I don't expect them
To leave them with someone else. How should I raise this with my daughters friends mum. Please help husband no use just says she's flight nowhere again

Your post is hard to understand.

Do you mean you left your child with one family for a sleepover and then they went to someone else's house for a sleepover? .

I think you are slightly over reacting, you need to let your DD know that if she is uncomfortable with the arrangements she needs to let you know, surely all teenagers are glued to their mobiles and if it was a problem she could have called you. It sounds like all three girls were together?

She went for a sleepover with friend A. They met up with another friend for a while and then went back to A's house to sleep? Can't see the problem with this really.

Your daughter stayed at someone's house you didn't know (which might be a bit unsettling I agree) or she hung out there for a bit and then they all went back to the agreed house to sleep (which is totally normal)?

She is 14. She is going to go to people's houses that you don't know.

When I was 14 I camped out on the Mall all night with 4 friends for Diana's funeral. I think you need to let go a bit... She is 14 not 4.