I have a 23 month DS and really would like to have another baby but feel quite torn at the moment. I started a new job in April on a three year contract with a local government organisation (from another council).
My problem is partly that I feel guilty about knowingly getting pregnant when I?m on a limited length contract (and there's so much to do in my job I will realistically not be able to do everything I would like to during three years) but I don't want to wait too long. I'm also unsure about getting pregnant while I?m waiting to find out whether my job is actually secure for the three year period...which I won't find out 'till Christmas time. On the other hand, I may actually be more secure in a way if I am pregnant as my employer may be obliged to ensure i have a job to return to - dilemma! Is anyone else feeling similar things/ any advice / comments out there?