Hi all
To cut long and mad story short I am the unlikely chair of a playgroup. I'm far too soft..Lots of work and I'm not a natural but I'm trying hard.
The current leader is..words cannot describe..but a NIGHTMARE. She claims I'M LETTING THE DEVIL IN WHEN i TRY TO GET HER TO IMPLEMENT THE THINGS THAT ofsted HAVE RECOMMENDED. Whoops sorry about caps...
She sneaks off out the back door way before the end of the morning sometimes missing an hour. She is rude to the parents. Her personal hygeine is bad. Talking to her is like swimming thru treacle.. she just talks over you and will not listen. The good thing is that she is lovely with the kids and they are very fond of her, but she is becoming increasingly difficult and at times irrational.
On Monday when toddlers is on that she also runs, I turned up to find some bemused parents and no..lets call her Jane. Apparently she'd been there for half an hour, got all of the equipment out, and then left as she had an important appiontment. Her assistant had called in sick too so we were on our own.
I had to stay til 12.30 to wait for someone with a key to arrive as Jane is supposed to lock up. I had my 2 kids with me, I don't even work there its all unpaid and I had to lug away heavy equipment on my own as the other girls there were either pg or just had babies.
On Tues I approached her and said very pleasently that if neither she or assistant could make it perhaps Toddlers just shouldn't run that day. She flew off the handle, shouting how she'd worked here for 33 years and I begrudge her a single day off. I said it was nothing of the sort I'd have covered it myself if I'd had a few hours notice or got cover staff. She screamed that I wasn't her boss and that she'd given her whole life to this place
Didn't know what to do...
The other girls on the committee have been saying for ages she needs to go. I'm startig to think I agree
Where do we stand on this?
If this happens I'd like to make her redundant as she'd at least get some money, but can we do this, do we have the "power"? Seems strange as we're all voluntary that we should be able to do this...
Thanks. Sorry this is so long...