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Three year old still unhappy at preschool despite liking her childminder

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Barty1823 · 14/07/2026 08:26

My daughter had some initial separation anxiety when starting preschool (aged 2 and now 3) last year. Once we got over that I thought she seemed relatively happy at the end of the day and it’s a lovely setting. We’re at the end of the academic year now and she’s still pretty miserable about going there, even though once leaving she’s really happy to see me. I’m concerned that she’s either not getting on with the group of children or is finding the setting too busy and maybe a bit too loud/chaotic at times. She goes to a childminder twice a week and pre school twice a week. For the childminder days she’s absolutely buzzing and can’t wait to get in and play. But we’ve just not reached the same with pre school. Seems more resigned to it now.

Anyone had this? I’m wanting some ways on how I can help my child navigate this so that she starts to have some positive associations with larger child groups (particularly as she’ll start school in a year). I think these negative associations can perpetuate a bit for future and I want to help her navigate now. Maybe some minor adjustments at pre school by speaking to the teachers? I don’t know. Help please! :)

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MyGoldPlayer · 14/07/2026 12:30

How many are in the preschool and does she say anything about it herself?

Barty1823 · 14/07/2026 19:22

So difficult to get to the bottom of what exactly she doesn’t like about it but I think it could be that pre school is less personal than childminder and with too many children.

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