Options for starting childcare

[RhubarbRocks]

I am lucky to be able to have some flexibility over when I return to work - I do need to go back, but thanks to a small but unexpected inheritance, I could stretch my time off a little longer if I want to/be more flexible with working hours. My options are as follows (I work for a large and very accommodating organization). What would you do?

For context, DS arrived after 11 years of trying (and because of this will be our only) so my inclination is to spend as much time with him as I can, but I want to make a choice that is based on what is best for his development and happiness, not mine!!!

1. Start with childminder at 13 months old, for four days a week 8am-3pm
2. Start with a childminder at 13 months old, for three days a week 8am-6pm
3. Stay at home with me until 2 years old and then start at nursery four days a week 8am-6pm or five days 8am-3pm

Thanks for thoughts.

1 or 3b.

I wouldn't do the 6pm pick up. Never worked for us.

Stay at home until 2 for sure. This time is so precious and if you're not having another one, soak it in. I would then wait until closer to the time to decide on the 4 or the 5 days. Probably I would go for 5 days but depends on your child.

If you enjoy being at home with him then stay at home for as long as you can.

When it's time to go back use a childminder over a nursery (unless you can't find a really good childminder, in which case a great nursery is a good second choice).

Whether four long days or three short days are better depends on things like what your job is, your commute and his energy levels/nap routine so I'd wait and see nearer the time.

Thanks. 3 is the biggest financial hit so I’d be using most of the money to fund that year off. It’s what my heart wants but I’m trying to weigh it up v saving the money towards his future (eg towards a house deposit for him).

Honestly I think if you heart is leaning toward the more time option, do it. You'll value time with him so much more than the size of house deposit!

And my understanding of the research is that for the under 2s, time at home with a primary carer is the best for their development rather than childcare.