Private nursery is normally designed primarily to provide childcare to pre-school children whose parents work. They typically take them from around 9 months (some as young as 3 months, some not until a year), and look after them in rooms divided by age. They typically take the children from around 8am (some as early as 7am) until around 6pm to cover the work day and travel time to and from work for parents. There is normally a daily fee, although free places may be available for preschoolers (3-4 year olds) and sometimes 2-3 year olds. There may be some costs associated with children even of these ages. The curriculums vary, but are aimed closely at the age of the children in each room.
Pre-school nurseries are for 3-4 year olds - the children will start in September after their 3rd birthday and leave to go to reception in the summer after their 4th birthday. They will primarily be based in school and children will either do a full day 9am-3pm or a half day. While some children may go while parents are at work, their primary purpose is to provide a child with an experience similar to school in the year before they start school. The provision is free, although some may charge for "additional costs" such as food, trips, and a supplies fee. The children will follow the foundation stage of the National Curriculum, although they will have lots of free play etc too.
The main question is will your child need to be in care while you work, before it is school age?
- Before they are 3 if they do, then you will need to use a private nursery or a childminder as they will be too young to attend a school nursery.
- If they do not, then there is not probably a reason to pay for day nursery, so they will stay with a parent at that time.
Once they turn 3, if you and a father work, you will probably qualify for some free childcare hours. These can be used in
- a day nursery
- with a childminder
- in a school nursery
You will need to look at the hours and set up of the different settings to work out which you would like to use.
Once they turn 3, if you don't work, you will still get 15 free childcare hours which you don't have to use, but can use if you wish. Any of the settings above would be useable, but if your primary reason for using the setting is for your child to become accustom to a school-like setting, a school nursery is probably the way to go. Your child will go for a number of sessions a week - usually every morning, every afternoon, or a couple of full days. They will stop attending here at the end of the summer term when they are 4, or will be 4 before September 1st, and will start in a reception class at a primary school in the September.