My son attends nursery 12 hours a week which is funded but have to pay additional costs for things like snack and the app they use. In January and feb it cost me £130 which I paid as I was told I could claim back up to 80%. Well turns out I can’t and I’m now stressed because i have little money and was waiting on getting a bit back. Basically I do not work which I didn’t realise you had to be in employment to receive any money back. Do I just have to accept the loss? Or is there anything I can do?