Hiya, first time poster so un sure on where I was to post it.
Basically my LG started flying start back in February and she seemed like she really enjoyed herself everytime she went but recently she seems not like her usual self, all bubbly and happy when shes coming out.
When I first met the teachers they all seemed so helpful and lovely and would always tell me about how her day had been and would actually talk to me about her but they just seem off lately. She was bothering with the girls loads but not so much now, worried she might not have any friends.
I started to notice that everytime I'd pick her up her face would be dirty and grubby but all the other children looked like they had been cleaned up. She's literally the only one who comes out looking scruffy and I've now lost count on how many times she's been given back to me drenched in her own urine. They used to change her bottoms but now don't seem to bother and I always make sure she's got spare clothes just incase of an accident as she is toilet trained. Does anyone else get given their child bad filthy because none of the other kids in her group are like it.
I always make sure that she's well dressed and presentable. We never send her to flying start dirty or anything but today picking her up she was yet again filthy. She had been crying and even when in the car continued to have tears rolling down her face. They had said that her shoes were too small and that her socks were wet and filthy coming in when I know for a fact I sent her in clean. I'm just unsure on why theyre trying to make out I've sent her like that when I didn't, she is always clean and well put together. Lately aswell when I'm dropping her in she's started to cower behind my legs and seemed hesitant to even go in which is unlike her as she used to love going in everyday. They obviously aren't watching her properly as she's managed to flood the sinks in the bathroom a handful of times and mind you the taps they have you have to hold down for any water to come out, as soon as you let go the water instantly stops. But she's done this plenty by stuffing tissue into the plug hole to block it and held the tap down to overflow it. If they were watching her properly that wouldn't be happening as those taps take forever to pour water out of let alone fill up a sink to flood the toilets
I just want to know anyone's thoughts on all of this because I just can't find anything helpful or relatable online.
Sorry for the essay lol, thanks for any feedback