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Mixing morning and afternoon sessions?

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Sofx · 03/02/2023 12:25

I've currently signed up to do one AM and one PM session a week for DS (3 in April).

There's many pros and cons to both hence the one of each but I wonder if it's wise to mix or would it be better/easier for him to settle if he did both AM sessions or both PM sessions?
AM is 8:45-11:45
PM is 12:15-3:15

I have DD who is 3 months and isn't yet in a 'routine' so to speak but obviously it would be nice if I could fit it around nap/feed times so I get a little bit of a break.

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TheWayItAllWouldGo · 03/02/2023 12:26

I'm a nursery nurse and I think a mix of both would be good. There are some things morning children miss out on in the afternoon and vice versa.

Sofx · 03/02/2023 13:15

@TheWayItAllWouldGo thank you for reply, it's interesting to hear from someone who works in that environment!
I was worried it may be easier for him if it was the same start and finish times so he could get used to having a 'routine' but I do like the idea that he'll get to experience both, and hopefully we'd be able to change if it wasn't working for us.

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plumduck · 03/02/2023 13:16

I'd do AM. To wear him out for PM.

Sofx · 03/02/2023 13:18

To add - he rarely has naps.

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R0ckets · 03/02/2023 13:20

I'm surprised the nursery will let you do so little in terms of sessions. I don't think the mix of afternoons and mornings will be an issue but I do think he will find it very hard to settle doing so few hours and the routine between the 2 sessions being so different.

CoodleMoodle · 03/02/2023 13:29

Mine both went to preschool rather than nursery, but they did a mix of mornings and afternoons. We started out with just a few sessions and then increased them to the full 5 sessions. Well, DS ended up doing 6 sessions, one paid by us.

By the end of preschool DD did 3 mornings, one full day and one day off. DS was doing one morning, one afternoon, two full days and one day off. On the days off I took them to toddler group in the morning.

They're 8 and 4 now and adored preschool! I think a mixture was good for them, it got them used to having lunch, etc.

Sofx · 03/02/2023 13:30

@R0ckets I think most places have a minimum of 2 sessions per week, around here they do anyway and we've viewed a fair few.

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R0ckets · 03/02/2023 14:00

Sofx · 03/02/2023 13:30

@R0ckets I think most places have a minimum of 2 sessions per week, around here they do anyway and we've viewed a fair few.

That's really surprising around here it's definitely more common to have a minimum of 3 sessions although most do more and the general rule is often on consecutive days to help settle and create a routine.

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