12mo settling in at childminders

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My 12mo has some settling in sessions coming up at the childminders before she starts full time shortly. She's going through a clingy stage and hasn't spent much time with others because of lockdown, no family nearby. My husband has suggested he take her the first couple of times to make it easier for me to not see her so upset crying for me but I feel like I need to take her although I know it will be tough leaving her there. What do you recommend please? I worry if my husband takes her she will find it even more tough. Thanks

I think your dh is right. It's usually easier for them to separate from daddy and if you're also likely to be hesitant or emotional the little one will pick up on that. Send your dh and I'm sure the cm will keep you updated during the day

If you think you are likely to be upset, then send your DH, as your child needs to see this as a positive step, not one that upsets mummy.

I agree with DH.
It's so hard and if they see you upset it makes them worse.
Let him try it with her and see how they go.
You can ring them anytime to check in.

I also think send DH if he is more positive about it. She'll pick up on how you're feeling and be more upset than she needs to be otherwise.

Thank you so much all for your replies. I really appreciate it. I will send my DH as I think you are right.