So, DD (3) started nursery a few months ago, just a couple of days a week. Sometimes she'll come home and tell me she was crying because she got hurt, but when I query with the staff it's completely denied. I know kids lie sometimes, but DD was adamant on a couple of these occasions, which is unlike her (she lies with a big grin on her face and will admit that she was telling stories after a moment).
I went to pick DD up the other day and saw a younger child in the courtyard (probably 1-1.5, different class to DD) fall and hit his head. He sat crying for a short while but the nursery workers were talking amongst themselves at the opposite end of the courtyard so didn't see him and I ended up calling out repeatedly in order to flag someone down to point him out. It did make me wonder if perhaps the staff aren't being particularly vigilant. I did ask DD if she thinks they don't notice when she cries and she said yes, but it was a leading question so it's hardly definitive.
Is that normal at a nursery or should I be concerned? Do I need to say something?