Hello,
Long story: I moved house two months ago with my 3 year old daughter due to leaving my fiance. We moved an hour drive away, and I do not like her new nursery. They have not looked at her folder yet with her behaviour and play plans due to suspected autism, despite me asking, and will not hand them back to me yet. DD is being potty trained currently, they are leaving her in nappies for the day because they "forgot". They rarely play in the garden or anything, and DD has not made any friends yet and is a completely different child since moving there. Due to my workload she also rarely sees me at the moment which is breaking my heart. I have just started a university placement near her old nursery that she loved, and they have space from August if she wishes to go back. However, because that is two months away yet I am not sure if I should agree and sign her back up for then, and this placement ends mid-August anyway so I will be driving 1hr 30mins round trip twice a day when I am not in placement near her. She could also end up making new friends by then at the current nursery, or they could improve. I don't really know what to do and have absolutely nowhere else to ask. I will do anything if it means she's happier, even the 3hrs driving a day is nothing if she is happy, but I don't know if I should take the risk when she could hate it or if it could mess with her mental space. She will also fall asleep in the car on the way home from the nursery nearer my placement everyday which means she will not sleep at night, due to the 45min drive, which is another reason I'm not sure.
Any advice is appreciated right now
Thanks