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Just want to rant

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ColdMarch · 18/04/2021 00:44

My 3 yo is starting back at day nursery after being off for a year because of covid and all the difficulties that came with it.
She has the 15 hours free, I did all the paperwork and arranged two taster sessions the next week.
Her dad took her for the first one and brought back the funding form again for me to fill in. Thinking maybe it was an honest mistake I filled it in again and handed it back in the next day when I dropped her off.
At pick up the 'assistant manager' stopped me and says she put it in my daughter's back pack because I didn't fill it out correctly because I didn't put in the code for 2-3 year funding. I read it carefully and it says 2 year funding OR 30 hours, neither of which I'm claiming and therefore can't get a code. I explained this but she insisted.
It's just really wound me up because it's the third time I'm dealing the same form and she didn't even stand up to talk to me, just shouted across a crowded garden while the other workers supervised the kids and the form was literally hanging out of the backpack she hadn't even zipped it back up before stuffing it under another child's coat! It had all my information on and then to top it off she made a backhanded comment about my 3yo not being 'dainty' anymore, like last year.
To make matters even worse is that on the three occasions we've visited she's so far lost her favourite Dolly, a full backpack with clothes, juice bottle and a coin purse and most of her hair accessories (those at least I expect to get lost) and no one seems to be able to track them down when I ask, all I get is that they'll keep an eye out for it. She's not even started yet and I've spent £40 replacing stuff.

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MagicMatilda · 18/04/2021 17:03

They sound pretty useless...is there another nursery you could use?

Fandabydosey · 18/04/2021 17:37

Funding forms have to be filled in by the parent and not the nursery. This is so the nursery are not seen to be claiming funding for non existent children. The funding forms only last a few months so need filling in a few times a year.

ColdMarch · 18/04/2021 17:47

I was thinking that but her dad really wants her to go there because it's the only one in walking distance. I'll suck it up and hopefully it'll just be a rough patch if not I've picked one out that's a short bus ride away

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Amumtomyson · 18/04/2021 18:11

Makes you wonder if they treat people and kids like this to their face, what are they like when you.arent there or behind your back..I find nurseries tend to have staff who appear disinterested and unhappy who then take it out on the children.

Tumbleweed101 · 18/04/2021 20:32

Our forms have a section that needs filling in to show which days you want to use the hours over. This needs to be signed to show it is for summer 2021 term. I'm wondering if this is similar on the one you have been given? I believe it is to show that the claimed hours and registers match if the council requests sight of them.

We prefer items from home aren't sent in because when its busy it can be difficult to keep track of toys and items belonging to individual children or a staff changeover during the day could mean some staff are unaware of an item that belongs to an individual rather than just nursery toys. Is there a reason you are bringing things into nursery (aside from the backpack of clothes!)?

In regards to how new you are to this nursery though I'd be expecting a much more thorough run over of everything from the senior staff.

ColdMarch · 19/04/2021 07:30

They had a bit like that and I filled it in with a staff member and she checked it over the first time I did the firm. I don't know why this 'assistant manager' is asking me to fill in a 30 hours code when I've told her I'm not eligible for and I'm only claiming 15 hours which doesn't need a code.
It's my daughter's first proper day today and I'm going to bring the new Dolly back home with me. She likes to hold her while she's out, with covid she hasn't been out as much and has become afraid of strangers and men in particular. When I drop her off I'm going to speak to the manager and see it I can get the whole mess straightened out

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bubblebath62636 · 19/04/2021 07:34

This would annoy me too op. I'd expect that kind of behaviour with older kids eg stuffing forms into bags etc.

At 3 they're still so small! Hopefully it's not a reflection on the nursery as a whole.

ColdMarch · 22/04/2021 09:23

Update
So on Monday I spoke to the manager and I had filled in the form correctly the first time and this wasn't the only time it had happened there were other parents complaining about the same thing. The rest of the staff have been amazing and she's settled in really well, still don't like the assistant manager though, she mostly ignores me when I do drop off and pick up so that suits me just fine

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