hi - just looking for some down to earth advice!
My 3 year old boy is all potty trained but still needs someone to wipe his bottom.
Yesterday at nursery, a worker who doesn't work with him usually insisted he wiped his own bottom. Hes never done this before and when he came home he seemed a bit anxious about it. This isn't a huge deal and I figured I'd just say to nursery that we'd like to be told if they were doing this so we could support it at home/be on the same page etc etc. I also want it done carefully because he used to have issues with pooping at nursery and it caused a few problems.
So far, so routine. However then my son said this worker took a photo of him on the toilet. He said this several times to me.
However then 2 hours later he said it wasn't true after all.
I spoke to nursery today to try and establish what went on. I tried to speak to the room lead and in turn she dragged out the worker in question.
What I got was initially a lot of defensiveness about the bottom wiping - which as I said isn't a huge deal, I just want us all to communicate. Then she just said "no, we don't take the tablet (they take photos on an ipad) out into the toilet".
And...that was that.
I'm under no illusions. My boy does tell some tall stories (apparently we were in France last weekend with 2 non-existent sisters 😂😂😂) but this just seem so weird. And to say she took photos is out of the blue - usually his other "stories" circle around things hes seen on TV or heard others chatting about.
How should I proceed???