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I saw this at DD's nursery...

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Cakehead · 29/09/2007 07:31

Yesterday I dropped DD off at her nursery. She's gone since she was six months although is now two. First she started in the baby room then has moved up to a family room, however, my LO will start the baby room in January.

I'd taken DD's coat upstairs to hang on her peg although the children all start off downstairs together. I was at the top of the stairs watching, so they baby room staff didn't see me. One girl was coming up the stairs with a baby under each arm and kicking open a fire door to get through. DH says that Health and Safety says you shouldn't carry more than one child at a time, particularly on stairs. But that wasn't the thing that bothered me.

One little boy, obviously learning to crawl, was being allowed to crawl up the stairs. He'd ground to a halt after a few steps, mainly because he was looking at me at the top. A careworker was nudging him on his bottom with her foot to try and get him to move. She kept saying 'Come on, come on', but not in a particularly encouraging way. Then she just picked him up by one arm and carried him up the rest of the flight of stairs, dangling.
I'd hate to see DD handled like that at that age, or any age. When the careworker saw me, she tried to make light of it, saying he that he was about to move up in to my daughter's room.

Am I being too sensitive? It's the stairs, so I appreciate they don't want to be balancing kids on their, but this seemed a bit out of order to me. He must have been nine months or so. Should I say something? I have a meeting with the manager in a week about something general. I've been seriously considering getting a nanny for DD and LO come the New Year anyway and this seems to have confirmed the choice for me...

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otto · 22/10/2007 14:41

Hi Cakehead. What a horrible experience and good for you for pursuing a complaint. Can I ask you whereabouts you live as the nursery sounds very similar to the one that my own DS goes to and I have had numerous problems with the nursery.

Cakehead · 22/10/2007 19:56

I'm in Surrey, Otto - you? Will be a bit cagey here as all the nurseries in my area are run by the same group, so it would be pretty obvious who I was talking about if I said the exact place. But if you're in Surrey too, let me know...

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dinny · 22/10/2007 20:01

hmmm, I looked at at nursery in Surrey that I really thought was awful - is it a chain?

CarGirl · 22/10/2007 20:03

Cakehead I'm very near you, there is only one Nursery I recommend in the area and it is a very very small one! I know a childminder who has 2 charges whose parents withdrew them from nursies basically because they were quiet children who got ignored - both have them completely blossomed and changed under the CM. Her 3rd charge has a mum who is a nursery nurse - and she won't take her dc to work with her!!!!!!!

dinny · 22/10/2007 20:07

which bit of Surrey?

CarGirl · 22/10/2007 20:39

Sorry I got a bit confused thought "otto" was an abbreviation of somewhere v near where I live rather than a posters name!

I live in North Surrey

peachygirl · 22/10/2007 20:47

Cakehead I've just re read this thread and realised it was you. This is awful.

Cakehead · 23/10/2007 18:24

Yep, we're in North Surrey but also part of Greater London. The nursery is part of a privately run chain and I think they have about five or six or so in the group, within a five mile radius. Some of the nurseries are just roads from each other. They have our place pretty well sewn up.

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dinny · 23/10/2007 19:02

is it TVN?

Cakehead · 23/10/2007 19:17

No, Dinny. It must be quite an unusual set up to have so many nurseries in a cluster like this, I think. They don't go out of area at all.

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