Would nursery be better?

[Firsttimemummy33]

My 12 month old ds had been at his cm since October he is fine with the older kids but does nothing but scream when the other baby (10 months) is anywhere near. He reacts as if he's terrified of her. There was a period of a few weeks where he was fine but for the past 5 weeks or so it's started again and doesn't seem to be getting better. When they are out and about at toddler groups he's ok but in the cm house can't tolerate her. The cm is going to give me notice by the end of the month if he's no better. I'm wondering if he would be better at nursery?

I read another similar post somewhere else on here and most ppl said maybe it was jealousy? Who was there first? What is the childminder doing to make them interact? Xx

I can understand you situation, it really feel upsetting to see your child distressed and your worry is perfectly understandable. But the situation is probably not as bad as you think. I think nursery wold better for him. It will make all round gains to him.

I would move him to another childminder rather than a nursery. There are likely to be numerous babies in a nursery rather than none, or one other at another childminder.