Where do I start?

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Hope someone can guide me. I was raised in another country and so am pretty unfamiliar with the set up in England for nursery/pre-school etc.
My DD is 16 months, I am a SAHM.
What is the difference between a nursery and a pre-school? How do I decide when DD goes, and for how long each week? Is everyone entitled to the free places at age 3? Do I need to choose one linked to a school? There are lots in our area but do I just pick one close to home? I, of course, read the Ofsted reports and listen to word of mouth. I guess I want to send her, to socialise and be away from me, for a couple of mornings a week to start? Do they tend to be there full time by the time they get to the stage just before school? She will be attending state school, so no nurseries linked to private schools required. Is there a 'good age' to start?
As you can see, I am clueless and want to make sure I am doing the best for her. Also some have waiting lists and some don't open their registers until a couple of months before entry?
Point me in the right direction, please! Much appreciated.

Pre school is for 3yo and above. Most nurseries include this and will call the 3yo room the preschool anyway.
It's pretty Daunting to start but after the initial information overload it should be pain free.

Step 1. Pick say, 5 nurseries that have the best facilities, good OFSTED reports etc. Ring each and check availability and book an hour to have a look, take child with you.

Step 2. Providing you know what hours you want her to do, the nurseries should be accommodating and helpful, generally you get a "feel
" for the right one. Kids looking happy and comfortable in their situation, place is clean and fresh,outdoor space is tidy, staff engaging with kids,etc. Places that ask you just to tip up are IMHO better as it's clear they have nothing to hide and no "prep" to be done.

Step3. Pick favourite And have a settlingng in period, usually free, where child goes and has a play away from you whilst you discuss costs, sign paperwork etc.

Go with your gut. If it feels false or uncomfortable and the children don't seem happy and the place doesn't gel then that's a good sign that the place has picked itself up for your visit and "prepped".

If it's a good nursery they should be able to answer all of your questions seamlessly.