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Please help: DD not sleeping at nursery!

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rebelwithoutababy · 20/06/2012 13:23

My DD is 8 months and has been at nursery 3 days a week (Mon, Wed, Fri) since 6 months. She is a really good sleeper with me (12 hours a night, plus morning sleep of 45 mins- 1hr, afternoon sleep of 1 1/2 to 2 hours) and settles herself well in cot (not smug - it took us a while to get her to this stage!).

She manages to sleep around 30 mins in the morning at nursery, but has only ever managed at most an hour after lunch, and in the last couple of weeks, that has now gone down to max 20 mins in morning, and 30 mins at lunchtime. I have supplied dummies, grobag and comforter, as she has at home, and asked the staff not to get her up straight away if she starts "chatting" to herself, as she often does this at home, and resettles quickly back to sleep. Obviously they (and I!) go to her if she cries.

The problem is, now she is starting to be unsettled at night, I think because she is so overtired, and she is starting to go from a very jolly, bright little thing, to a grumpy and exhausted baby. Has anyone got any thoughts on how I can get her to settle better at nursery?! She is in a cot in the baby sleep room...Any advice gratefully recieved! (even if it's just, it will get better!) Thanks for your help

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dribbleface · 20/06/2012 13:36

The only thing i can think of is the light in the room? is her room at home very dark? other than that it may just be standard separation anxiety affecting night sleep, Ds2 is the same age and doing much the same.

33goingon64 · 20/06/2012 13:44

It could just be a phase. Is there another baby in the room who wakes her up? Could she be too hot? Maybe try a thinner grobag?

Wheresmycaffeinedrip · 20/06/2012 13:47

8-9 months is classic srparation anxiety age. Maybe give her a blankey style thing that u have worn or slept with and smells of u. Worked wonders with both my dds. :)

rebelwithoutababy · 20/06/2012 14:35

Oh thanks all! Have gone for thinner grobag today 33 as thought the same...I think it is noise partly, as she is v nosy and sociable! Hadn't really thought about separation anxiety, as she is always v happy when dropped off, and doesn't cry/cling at all. She doesn't cry at nap times either, just chats and plays...did your DCs seem upset with separation anxiety? Good thought re: light as well - not sure how dark room is, but will check as she sleeps with blackouts at home...

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insancerre · 23/06/2012 08:42

Just a thought but if she is used to sleeping in a room with blackouts and no noise then she will find it difficult to sleep at nursery as they are probably unable to replicate this.

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