do/would you pop into nursery to see your 19mo when he is in for a full day?

[gigglinggoblin]

or will that just confuse him?

i hate leaving him at nursery, i want him to be at home with me all the time, but i find that when he is i hate that too. so he is going, but i have massive guilt about leaving him there 9am - 5.30pm (because of my timetable). im a student, going back to uni next week and apart from this one full day the most he will be in on other days is a half day. i know he likes nursery, but its just the fact that the day is so long. i have a 2 hour break over lunch time, should i pick him up and take him out for lunch or leave him there?

anyone done it? anyone worked at a nursery and seen it?

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thats what i thought

dp thinks im odd to be worrying about this.

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NO! Will just confuse him. He'll get stroppy and upset when he has to go back. Do something you enjoy, that you don't have the chance to do normally, instead. Read a paper or have a pee in peace, go shopping, enjoy a relaxing lunch, anything to avoid the temptation to go anywhere near nursery! One full day will not kill him, honest.

i really thought cod was talking sense, and then she says something ridiculous like 'tidy up'. what do you think i have other children for?

you are all right. i am being clingy and stupid. thank you

this time next week i will probably have forgotten i even have children, will be back into normal person mode

Good God no!!!!

I get in the car,execute mad handbrake turn and drive as far and as fast as I can when my 18 mth old ds goes to nursery.
Return as the last member of staff is locking up.

No, I really wouldn't. very confusing for him.