Hello! I could really do with some advice/thoughts on a situation at nursery. My DD who is three and a half goes to a nursery which is OK. I think she's happy there although I do have some reservations about some staff members who I just don't feel are that brilliant with kids basically. Anyway, yesterday when I picked up my DD, one staff member was waiting for me at the door where she told me that my DD had wet herself that afternoon and that she thought it was deliberate. If my DD had done that, it would be extremely out of character so in in itself, would be strange. I asked the staff member how she had dealt with it and initially she implied that my DD had been told off - and been told that Mummy would be very upset with her. I said that I didn't think it was appropriate for a 'first offence' so to speak, if it was deliberate, and that it may not have been. The staff member then backtracked. When I talked to my DD she said it was an accident. After the incident, my DD had been sent off to get changed on her own. When I got her home I realised that she still had her skirt on which was all wet, and that she'd put her knickers on but with two legs in one hole - ie very uncomfortable. She was very upset about the incident. As am I, now,
What would you do? I don't know how to react to this, it feels all wrong to me, but am I over-reacting? Thanks in advance!