Nadene I am currently looking for a part time job and I am rejecting the vast majority because they do not pay enough to make it worthwhile. My salary when I worked full time was the same as yours.
I think I need to be earning a minimum of £10 / hour (£21,000 is around £11/hour)and many part time admin type jobs only pay £6-8.
If I worked 18.5 hours a week & ds was in nursery during this time I would take home around £300 a month.
Given that to work I would need to run a car but as a SAHM I don;t really need one (we could share dh's), that £300 could be written off in car costs anyway.
We would probably not be eligible for any tax credits if I worked, as our joint income would be over the threshold.
It is a dilemma because I would like to be working again, but ds is still under 2 and I think why rock the boat now for not much material gain, why not wait until he's a bit older and think about retraining / starting my own business etc.
I mostly enjoy not working, but sometimes I just feel a bit lacking in adult company, and my brain's going a bit mushy!