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May Dip St. Andrews

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Factchekker · 02/05/2026 13:33

Had to laugh.....female bathers in the sea at St Andrew's for the 'May Dip' complaining that images of them were being circulated despite having been warned about it. One student reported her poor self-image yet still went ahead with others in their bikinis being photographed by men hiding in tents with their 'long lenses' out.....excuse the imagery. How naive --- what did they expect? If it was such an issue, why not dress more modestly, in Victorian garb plus head bonnet (and a wooden wheeled changing vehice). I don't recall this May Dip in the 70's anyway....must be relatively new. I cannot believe these young women don't know how the media works...thought they were supposed to be intelligent. 😸

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StepawayfromtheLindors · 02/05/2026 13:35

Wow, you can’t believe that women want to go swimming in the sea without their photos being taken and published with no consent given by them? Are you usually so misogynistic?

Factchekker · 02/05/2026 13:42

Not at all....I can't believe they're so stupid. It's a public place. They were told about it but still went ahead. This is not misogynistic....it's reality.

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Factchekker · 02/05/2026 13:44

It's like everything else in life....if it's likely to cause a problem for you, then don't do it. It's called consequences.

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Factchekker · 02/05/2026 13:48

BTW....you might want to look up the meaning of misogynist.

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FionnulaTheCooler · 02/05/2026 13:49

StepawayfromtheLindors · 02/05/2026 13:35

Wow, you can’t believe that women want to go swimming in the sea without their photos being taken and published with no consent given by them? Are you usually so misogynistic?

To be fair, its well known that you're likely to get photographed during this particular event and it often appears in the local press.

DancingNotDrowning · 02/05/2026 13:50

You sound nice OP Hmm

Women should be allowed to exist without being photographed in their swimwear

StepawayfromtheLindors · 02/05/2026 13:51

Factchekker · 02/05/2026 13:48

BTW....you might want to look up the meaning of misogynist.

You’ve called these women stupid, naive and questioned their intelligence. I’d say that’s pretty misogynistic.

Factchekker · 02/05/2026 13:56

Of course women should be allowed to be seen in their swimwear without being photographed, but that's hardly the point. The point is, is that they are. If they know this is likely to happen, and they should know, then don't complain. My wife agrees with me....just don't go, or dress in such a way that these photographers would just lose interest. Simple logic.

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Factchekker · 02/05/2026 14:04

Incidentally, calling them stupid and naive is not misogynistic -- I'd have said the same if it was men. In any event, they must be naive if they thought there wasn't likely to be the obvious consequences. The message had already been made clear to them. How many males had been photographed and images circulated...precious few if any. This goes back to my belief that men's brains work at a very primitive level - not sure of the equivalent term for misogynism when insulting males.

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Factchekker · 02/05/2026 14:06

Posted enough on this. Some people get a bit wound up about this.

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Factchekker · 02/05/2026 14:13

Misandry....just looked it up. Perhaps I'm guilty of that as well. Probably.

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DancingNotDrowning · 02/05/2026 17:12

Ah your wife agrees with you!

it’s a great pity that women marry sexist, victim blame-y men but I suppose there are some with low bars out there 🤷‍♀️

Factchekker · 02/05/2026 19:47

It was my wife which drew my attention to this, and I'm simply voicing her opinions - to which I agree. The opinions from those clearly not understanding my point are obviously from ignorant individuals who cannot understand the narrative.

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Factchekker · 02/05/2026 19:51

No longer going to engage with the uneducated.

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