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"she's pushing 60 (or 50, or 70 or whatever)" ageist or not?

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ElizabethPurley · 05/04/2026 14:57

At work a few weeks ago a manager, when talking about a colleague, said "she's in ill health and pushing 60..."

Would you consider this ageist or not? Interested to hear views.

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ElizabethPurley · 06/04/2026 15:05

thanks for all these comments- I think’ the majority are saying it’s not discriminatory, just factual, which is fair enough!

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Perfidia · 06/04/2026 17:19

I’m sure you know perfectly well that in the context you provided the colleague’s age was being used to justify taking some negative (job depriving) action against them.

Not sure why you’ve brought this to MN. Are you the person being accused of age discrimination at work, @ElizabethPurley?

cramptramp · 06/04/2026 17:26

I’m past pushing 60, and I think it’s fine to say pushing any age.

ElizabethPurley · 06/04/2026 18:45

Perfidia · 06/04/2026 17:19

I’m sure you know perfectly well that in the context you provided the colleague’s age was being used to justify taking some negative (job depriving) action against them.

Not sure why you’ve brought this to MN. Are you the person being accused of age discrimination at work, @ElizabethPurley?

Nope, not me so DFOD

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Batties · 06/04/2026 18:50

In my work place it would be considered discriminatory language, especially if the age of your colleague wasn’t relevant.

For example if someone said ‘ X isn’t great at technology because she is pushing 60’, that would be seen as a derogatory, ageist stereotype.

HundredAcreOwl · 12/04/2026 16:52

DisplayPurposesOnly · 05/04/2026 15:31

I just realised i qualify for 'pushing 60'. Now I feel old 😅

I'm pushing 70, still not old to me. I do think it was a completely unnecessary remark, suggesting that her age means she can't work well.

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