What would you do?

[Brownie101]

Hiya,

I have just found out that my partner of 7 years has been exchanging flirty texts with a woman he met online (her partner found the messages and sent to me via social media)

I feel bloody horrible and betrayed.

He is generally a good person, I think, but has made a spectacular mess of this, and I can't stand being lied to.

Untangling lives is such hard work and if I go, I almost certainly will lose contact with my step children who I adore. (I'm not from the place that we live in and will move home which is a considerable distance away)

What would you do?

Well, what does he say? Is he remorseful? Is there something in his life/your relationship he needed an outlet from? There's never an excuse for betraying your partner, but his response now could influence your decision.

If you'll be able to see past this and trust him again, you could stay. If not, you should leave

Hey everyone,
I need some advice on what to do. My sister in-law keeps doing my baby's first things when she looks after her without telling me she's going to do it, she just tells me afterwards and I feel really upset that I wasn't asked or given the opportunity to do any of these things first. I've mentioned it to my husband and he said he'd have a word. I don't think I've done any of my little one's first's so far because of some reason or other, it's really upsetting me.