I’ve been married for 7 years and we have 2 daughters together. We’ve had such a happy marriage so far and we’re pretty much best friends. As people we are polar opposites in everything! A few weeks ago I was sending some pictures off my husbands phone to myself and I deleted one by mistake, I then went into his deleted folder to find a video he had made of himself. We’ve never ever sent any type of video/pictures to each other in that way and conversations of that type of thing have never happened. I was so hurt but also so confused. I confronted him and he denied it was for anyone else but it was for me. I don’t actually think he could cheat on me as we are together a lot and generally he’s quite happy or comes across that way. I just can’t get it out of my head. We’ve talked about it a few times as he new I was upset, but I also know I’m not stupid. My head is questioning his every move and I don’t want to start doubting him but I can’t help it. Things are generally abit up and down at the moment and I’m finding it hard to trust him. I know it’s only a video but it’s hurt me a lot. Do I sound pathetic or should I be worried??