Should I be worried

[Mumofabeauty123]

I know this is a long shot and sorry for the rant but I'm a very anxious person and just wanting some other people's opinions. So here goes my partner and I have a good sex life but I have definitely got a higher sex drive. However I get the feeling my other half may sort himself out so to speak on a regular basis. I know this is prob normal but I'm worried I'm not doing it for him or should I just put it to the back of my mind and focus on the sex we have. Please let me know what you think.

I think almost every couple have a different sex drive and that is fine , your DP may be masturbating on his own while fantasising about something he thinks / knows you would not like .

Talking about it is key , do not bottle up your worries ( I speak from experience ! ) if you are not quite sure how to broach the subject use the excuse that ' a friend said . . . DP /masturbates and s/he is not sure how their other half feels about it . . . . and see what your DP says if he seems keen on the idea tell him you would like to watch him / him watch you next time but only if you are comfortable with this .

Be careful not to accuse or ridicule him for it , it is a perfectly normal thing to do but he may clam up and not want to talk about it which will leave you both in a stalemate situation .

Good luck .