Hi I just would like someones take on this. My ex used to hate my kids and I wasnt able to talk about them or even mention their names when we were together. We broke up because he said something really bad about them. He has come back into my life again to support me in my current mental state and still wont let me talk about my kids and i need to talk about my son as we are having issues. He let me say some things but now he has changed his mind and as soon as i mentioned my son he went on to describe his first time with his first gf and said if i talk about my son again he will keep talking about his ex..I do not see how the two are the same thing and how can he compare a child to an ex but he says if i bring up disgusting things then so will he. How can anyone hate someones kids so much that they repulse them? He says he hates them because he definitely knows i slept with two guys. I dont know what to do cause he is helping me get out of the house and gives me money. Im so lost and confused sad