The first half of my pregnancy was made completely stressful my my in-laws. They created arguments between my partner and me, his mother actually turned up at my doctors appointment and walked in demanding that I be put on antidepressants because I was hormonal. She rang me constantly and at 17 weeks I decided to block her number and as a result became much more relaxed.
My partner was initially supportive but recently has been under pressure from his mother for us to go and visit. I reluctantly agreed to make him happy but have made it clear I don’t want her turning up at our house and calling me all the time. There needs to be boundaries.
Now our baby is due in 2 weeks and because neither of us drive I have been planning to go home from hospital in a taxi to which he has said absolutely not and that his parents will drive us and baby home. I am a first time mum and live hundreds of miles away from my family and feel so strongly that I don’t want stressful people around me when I am in labour or just after. I have never said that his family cannot see the baby I just don’t want them around me when I have just give birth. Am I being unreasonable?
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Coming home from the hospital. Am I unreasonable?
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KateFTM · 12/01/2019 14:25
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