Hi Everyone. 1st post please be gentle:)
Posting as really need some advice from outside my circle. I've been seeing a man same age as me 35, for about a year. We both have professional jobs and don't live together. I have a DD 8, he has no kids. At first he was lovely attentive wanting to see me all the time which at first was great but become too much. He also texts and rings late, early,during the night.I havent had a good feeling for ages and there's been loads of arguments mainly about his behaviour. We split a few months ago then he came back very loving promising to change. If anything it's worse. I have kept my DD away from him for awhile not wanting her to pick up on any bad feelings which is pissing him off but hes now refusing to change saying i frustrate him thats why hes horrible. I get told to eff off if i say something sometimes jokingly he doesn't like. His moods change rapidly. He changes what he wants daily. Wants the relationship then doesn't then i should find someone else then he'll be annoyed if i do. His mother left his father when he waa young as a result he has zero respect for women. He's always badly done to and his life is crap (its not). If i point out good things he has such as a recent holiday (i couldn't afford it and have been ill) his answer was he can't help good things happening to him!!. Also i should add. couple of wks ago he sent me random sexual aggressive texts. he is very selfish in the bedroom never doing anything for me amd is a very defensive person but isnt adventurous in bed so came as a shock adding to my discomfort. theres a strange air when I'm with him as in i feel uncomfortable. He is currently on day 4 of not speaking to me due to him offering to take me and DD out i said no until things improve. He accused me of not appreciating him and being difficult and the excuse was for the aggressive txts was he likes sex. Theres loads more but too much for here. I suppose just wondering if this is all me as he says or if this sounds mental to everyone else aswell. thx all Xx