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Poison pen letters/ hate mail

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Maxx88 · 19/11/2018 16:24

Hi I’m new to mumsnet 🙂 would really appreciate people’s opinions/views on this issue.
2 years ago on the 22nd of December 2016 right near Xmas my partner and I received a handwritten letter. It said my partner was cheating with no facts or evidence included, that I was selfish for working nights and not keeping him happy, verbal abuse towards myself things like thick bitch, dick head ect.. I’m assuming it was a woman as it also said I’m pregnant and my partner was going to be spending new year with them rather than me and that he had bought them a present (which is not true as he was with me and our children) At the end of the letter it said hope you have a good Xmas with your kids dickhead. It was four pages long. After a few months we chucked it in the bin.
On the 14th November this year another one came. It was a small Xmas card with happy Xmas daddy on the inside. Both of these were handwritten in messy capitals. The card was addressed to myself and daddy on the front. Both had been stamped with a 2nd class stamp.
The first time I was worried but now after this one I feel angry as I can’t respond in any way as I dnt know who it is. Just to say I trust my partner with all that I am and my instincts tell me someone has a grudge against me which I dnt understand as I keep myself to myself. Whoever is sending these may have mental health issues but that worries me as this person clearly knows me. I don’t no what to do I’ve considered taking them to the police station but I doubt they could do much anyway.
Thank u

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JiltedJohnsJulie · 20/11/2018 07:53

Hello and welcome to MN Smile

I’m sorry I have no idea what to do or why someone would be doing this to you. Hopefully someone who does know will be along soon Thanks

FabulouslyGlamorousFerret · 20/11/2018 09:44

I would pop in your local police station and ask their advice. The fact that this also happened last year would indicate someone has a serious grudge (or really does have your husbands baby).

Don't throw this one away in case it escalates.

Maxx88 · 20/11/2018 16:58

Thanks for comments 🙂 I’ve no idea who could be sending these surely if it was a woman who had my husbands baby they would be more respectful and at least sign it and make contact for the child’s sake. I really am at a loss. Due to the contents of these letters it appears someone has a grudge with me and wants to see me upset or worry but we haven’t told anyone about it this time either so hopefully someone somewhere will slip up hopefully.

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tissuesosoft · 20/11/2018 17:07

Is there a post mark on the stamp?

ScreamingValenta · 20/11/2018 17:12

Did the letter/envelope name you and your partner?

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