Hi guys first time post
I'm sick with worry
Long story short married happily mostly 21years 3 grown up beautiful kids
Ok so hubby n I not having sex at moment waiting on new mirena to be fitted and just not taking any chances hubby fine with it actually looking forward to getting back at it (excuse the pun )
Anyway I was collecting paperwork from his car last night and found an unopened sealed single viagra
Approached him on it straight away some excuse s mate gave it to him at a party we attended together last week
Up all night rowing about it major tow because I can't let it go
Anyway in the row he came out with that he has been in contact with a family member behind my back he is estranged from this person years but it's like he.came out with that to hurt me he's been lying all this 21 years to me about having no contact with them (close family member )
I'm thinking of ending it I feel so.betrayed
He does no hide phone fb etc up to this he tells me everyday he loves me he provides for the girls and myself and works hard
I'm sad and afraid and confused
Any help ?