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I’m ready for a baby but husband isn’t

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Sophielouise91 · 24/07/2018 09:39

Hi Ladies,

Hoping for some advice or comfort that someone has been in a similar position and all worked out for the best?

So last year I got diagnosed with Endometriosis. Ever since I have felt this desire to have a baby. I expressed my worries about conceiving with my husband and we both agreed we would wait till the new year.

So here we are in 2018 and my husband has confessed he is not ready to have a baby. We have been married for nearly 3 years and have been together for 10 years. We are both 27 years old.

Lately I haven’t been able to think anything but having a baby and it is taking over my life. Depression and anxiety have hit me hard now.
My Doctors have recommended to go to Relate and husband has agreed to go to one session but if he had it his way he wouldn’t go!

My husband has assured me he’s not saying never but I just have no idea when this will happen and almost need a plan in my head or a time scale but he won’t give me that in the fear of letting me down again!

Any advice would be welcome or anyone else’s experiences on this matter would be great!

Thank you xx

OP posts:
SayNoToCarrots · 24/07/2018 12:28

Would you be ok if you end up never having a child? For me, this would be a deal breaker. I couldn't dangle on the hook of a vague assurance that he's not saying never. Its easier for a man to say wait, he doesn't have a deadline.

27 is young, but if you do decide children are important to you, you need time to meet someone else and get to that stage.

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