Ok well firstly appologies for the long post,thanks for any advice given and for taking the time to listen. Ok so ive been with my husband 5 years and married 3, i have two children who are not his and they are 9 and 5 , my problem is i dont feel my husband loves me . Sexually there isnt a problem but emotionally it feels dead i feel like im chasing him for affection to be noticed to be heard. My husband smokes and i dont like hkm doing it in the lounge but he doesnt seem to care about my wishes at all he spends most of his free time gaming or watching videos and we both work nights. He wont go out for dinner or for something with the kids. I know thats his nature ive always loved him for who he is . But i feel if i wasnt there it wouldnt matter
nobody ever wants to give up especially when we havr worked so hard for it hes made improvements . The question i have is do i need to just accept his doesnt show emotion or should i do something about it ?
Thanks for the help guys x