I was single for 15 yrs after being in a couple of abusive relationships. I built myself up and relied on myself and got strong again. Three years ago I met an older guy at work and he literally swept me off my feet. We’ve been together 2 years now. I gave up my house & moved in with him but lately it’s just Groundhog Day everyday. I communicate how I feel too him and he says nothing. We never go out and I’m bored. Today we were washing the cars in the sun, I got my silly head on and thought soaking him with the hose would be a giggle/fun but he walked off. He returned and took his opportunity to get the hose & soak me - which I took in fun, but when I then got him back, he started throwing things at me... the basin full of soap, the gloves, then the empty basin once again, hurting me physically and emotionally. I walked away and stated “waters one thing but when you start throwing things that’s different!”. I am really annoyed now, what was fun has turned to me feeling wary and annoyed, he’s not made any attempt to apologise either... this isn’t right is it???