Hi folks, I was looking for some supportive words and guidance. I am currently 41 and 21 weeks pregnant. The fathers baby is avoiding telling his child to a previous relationship. He is 7 years of age and t.b.h i have not had much dealings with him over the last few years as there were earlier problems with his ex. She is very controlling and he is very weak with her. However 7 years has past since they spilt and things have to move on for us to be a family. I had a arguement last week which got really heated and the last thing i heard was "my words mean nothing as his father had gone into hospital". I have withdrew from him and said i hope he was o.k - which he is. He then sent me a message which was mean't to be for his ex, which he has done b4 and i don't know whether it was just to rub it in my face they are both on speaking terms or not. Its been tough but i know i can't put up with being second best and need to know whether things will get better for me. Any advice?