Hi, new here.
Having a bit of a dilemma. Recently found out I'm pregnant with baby number 4. Unplanned. Also found out that my sister is pregnant with her first.
My problem is she has gone off on one at me that I've gotten pregnant on purpose to steal the attention she should be getting while she's pregnant and that (even though she didn't plan her pregnancy) that I should never have gotten pregnant unless I knew she wasn't. It's not a new thing, she's always maintained that she wanted to have her pregnancy all by herself and that no one else should get pregnant at the same time and now it's come to the point that we aren't speaking and don't want to see one another.
I suppose I'm wondering if I'm the one in the wrong? For me pregnancy is only about the coming baby, not being the centre of attention, which I hate anyway. But she's firm on the fact that I'm evil and selfish for getting pregnant at the same time as her.
Not sure how to proceed either since all our friends prefer her over me and they're all telling her everything I thought I could confide in them.