Hi there!
I'm completely new to this but any help and advice would be gratefully appreciated.
Recently my partner's brother's girlfriend gave birth and both are living with his parents. They don't have the money to move out or even save for that matter!
Ever since the baby was born she's done nothing to help around the house.(No washing, drying, putting away clothes, making tea, hoovering etc). My partners mum has given up any hope of her doing any house work now to help. She lies in bed all day with the baby who is still sleeping in there room. I would say he's too old for that now and needs his own space - 8 MO?
She has absolutely no respect for her partners parents house or for them! It absolutely disgusts me as she's turned my partner's brother into someone he's not, it's like she has completely brainwashed him! He can't can't see whats going on!
If I want to have a cuddle with the wee one I have to ask, our side of the family get very little to do with the baby. My partners parents don't even get left alone with the baby and that hurts them as they've taken this girl in and given her and the baby a roof over their heads and she couldn't care about them.
No one will say anything about her attitude as their scared of the argument it will cause but I am sick fed up of it. Its not fair on my relationship. What can I/we do?
She the type of person that if you get on the wrong side of she'll make sure you have nothing to do with the baby!