My partner of 13 years is sleeping with a prostitute

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Hi there i have been with my partner for over 13 years we have two beautiful little girls age 9 and 3. Over the cause of our relationship i have found him texting other people many times but I just found out he has been sleeping with a prostitute for 2 years that I know of. She has been in contact with me a give me nothing only name calling and telling me how much she enjoyed sleeping with him. He told me she had treaten to tell me and was blackmailing him that's why he had to keep going back!! I love him so so much and financial can not do without him. I am trying so so hard to work at it but my heart is totally broken. I have always been the happy head of the family loved going out shopping and doing myself up as I am a beauty therapist but I don't even have the heart to wash my face or brush my hair. I am lost!!!! So I have been doing my best to work at it and we made a promise to each other we could look at each others phones emails text ect when ever we liked but when I asked last night he totally kicked of again. I am totally at a lose and don't know what to do are who to talk to. I need help x

Op ask for your thread to be moved to Relationships you'll get much more help on there. Sorry youre having such an awful time. My ex used prostitutes throughout our whole relationship, in fact I found evidence of it for a whole decade. Its very rare for a prostitute to hold your husband to ransom like that. Affects business. Who told you she was a prostitute? Your partner or she herself.

LTB

Yes, I'm surprised a prostitute would behave that way. It doesn't really make much difference though as he's being unfaithful and then kicking off at YOU for asking to see his phone. Why would he kick off if he was sorry our had nothing to hide? Why can't you do without him financially? You will be entitled to money from him and the government to help you. Be defiant deserve you and your lovely daughter's don't deserve this example of what a man behaves like.

His story doesn't ring true. But I think deep down, you know that.

O I so know that he is telling lies and clearly he still has things to hide. Financial because we are part of a family business if I leave it lose out and so will the kids

If you leave the marriage, be sure to include in your divorce decree that you will still be an active business partner in everything and expect to be treated with quality and have full disclosure on all business aspects. Especially If this business was built during the marriage. I am a struggling single mom of 2 (ages 13 and 4) after high profile and messy divorce. I am hopeful to begin my own business soon making and selling old fashioned soaps and modern fun bright fun smelling artisan soap. What ever you choose to do, make sure you do not divulge your plans to your spouse so he can counter any of your demands. Best of luck to you and your girls. You all deserve so much better as a queen and princesses!

So u stay with a man who has been sleeping with a prostitute because of a business and money that does not teach ure kids this man didn't just cheat he used the money he makes from the business and pays someone to sleep that is the definition of desperate u should add up how much he's spent on her u better pray he used protection id rather be homeless no money than stay with that how do u know it's just 1 he isn't showing u any respect when he does this

Relax and analize the situation.
If he say that he loves you and don't want to separe from you ,talk to him and ask why he did it.
I had a boyfriend many years ,he cheated me for 2 years ,when I discoverde he said that was my fault and that if he wanted that we stayed together I ahould change ny attitude .. I could not understand why I had to change my attitude ,if is he who was cheating me ,he had to change his attitude!.
The truth is that I was blackmailed by my sister and dad ,they were gwlous of my happy life ,I did not realize and I treated him disrespectfuly for lon time ,after he cheated ...also I cheat before butnot for as long ashim ,just a night ....I abandoned him.,I cried for 2 month mirning and night...to realizeaftera few year that ,the cause of deateoy the realtionship was mine ....sometimes look at the truth and ve honest is very very diffucult......if I could be cold and wait and think.am analize .....I had found out the reality ........just calm down and before to step.out ...analize and be honest with yourself.
I hope I can help you and you don't suffer too much.