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GeminiBaby23 · 23/11/2017 10:59
I don't know how to start this so I'll just give you a few details
My name is Cerys, I'm from Ireland and I'm Ninteen years old. I am currently 25 weeks pregnant with a very wanted baby. But my parents don't want me to have my child.
I'm currently living with an Aunt who is more than supportive. While she agrees that I'm young she knows I can handle it - I've been in worse situations before so this should be a breeze for me. My Aunt was also a teenage parent. And so was my Mum, but my Mum will never admit it if you ask her
She's being hateful. Saying how I'm leaving her in her time of struggle (She's really not in any struggle, she's just emotionally abusing me) I think she's hinting at me to get an abortion, but I'd never do that. It's just wrong - My little ball of love didn't ask to be put in the world. So I'm bringing he or she out into this world and I'm going to love them with everything in me
I know it sounds like I'm complaining. I'm just very stressed and wanted to tell someone who isn't family what's going on and maybe get some insight as to why my Mum is being this way
I don't know how to end this so I'll just say thank you for reading and please don't be worried about hurting my feelings. I'm made of strong stuff
Jennywallpaper · 23/11/2017 11:27
Hi Cerys! I hope you're keeping well and I'm glad you have your aunt to help and support you. I'm from Northern Ireland too! Are you 17 or 19 ? My mum had me at 19 and I love that she was such a young cool mum! Hopefully your baby will feel the same.
Has your mum said anything else about you having a baby? What is her reasons for wanting you to have an abortion? Unfortunately even if you did want too, you can't as it's illegal here and you are to far on in your pregnancy, but it is your decision what you do . X
ClaraSais · 13/12/2017 22:07
You're not complaining, just in a situation where you're not getting the support you need. Be strong, baby is lucky to have such an adoring mummy x
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