Lonely Mumma

[Mema79]

I am new to all this so if i ramble on i am sorry. I have 5 children ranging from 3 to 21 years old and have a grandbubba, I am also married, but OMG i am so bored and lonely 24/7.
I can not go out as much as id like to cos i have a condition with my head that effects my daily get up and go and my youngest also has a condition called IGA, basically he has a super low immune system and has a big list of allergies so that also effects me going out.
I feel like im in prison and its driving me insane. Ive tried to talk to the hubby but all he says is get a hobby.. its not that easy..... please tell me there is other mums out there going through the same sort of thing and im not just mad

Hang in there 'til someone helps. My Sympathy.

Have a think about what you'd actually like to do if you could. A gabby isn't a bad idea. You try try a local evening class. I joined a local community choir.

Are there any local support groups for your, or you child's condition? Or any online that can help you connect with other people?

It must be extremely difficult for you, you have my sympathy. However, nothing will drop on your lap, no one will knock of your door with answer. You have have to do it yourself. Take advantage of OH looking after children, engage a friend with something if it helps being with someone when you're doing something. Good luck,

Good on you Lozmatoz
I felt desperate to give sympathy and don't know enough to say more. I have the same symptoms as Mema as a widower with no drive and forgotten how to have fun.

thank you, i will have a look round and see what there is that i could do